04 August, 2010

And so I got engaged

Been a while since I wrote here. Thanks to the ever increasing to-do list and a few happening events. A lot happened in this period. I traveled to Jaipur, to attend a friend's wedding, where I was also the event photographer. I got tied up with a client project, that I am still struggling to wrap up. However the most important of all has to be the fact that I got Engaged.

Another milestone in this beautiful journey called life.

Now mine is a cent percent arranged marriage. I am sure many would think that in this age of open minded nature of people and my exposure to different parts of the world, why did I select this route.
I have my reasons and I must say it was a very well thought about one. There are basic things that I was looking for, and I found it in the girl.

A long time ago when I was discussing with a friend, I had mentioned that I hope that my better half would be a person who is into writing and traveling. I was least expecting this to be fulfilled, especially if I was going the arranged marriage route, but I was still hopeful. I am glad that my parents were able to find one that fit the bill. For me it was (and still is) that the respect to the parents should be the most.

She is an English Literature graduate, likes to travel and has been to places where I want to go. (So I have an English speaking guide for those places also). The one thing that is common is that we both like to shoot. The difference being that I do with a camera and she with a rifle as shooting is both our hobbies.

Just before the engagement at a family gathering over another case, we were having a heated discussion on love marriages versus arranged marriages. My stance was that the freedom should be given to the child to decide which one. In my case I decided the arranged route and stuck to it. That also meant turning down couple proposals, but that is ok. I can only say sorry to them and move on with the wish for them to find their better halves soon.

I believe that in the end its all upto the couple to see where to take their journey. It's their actions that decide whom to interact with, whom to respect and whom to expect respect from. Its a journey whose reins are in the individuals hands. One has to ensure that for the chariot on the journey of life to go and in a controlled manner, there is a proper resonance in the way the couple handles things.
 
Here's a photograph from the engagement, if you have not seen it on Facebook already.

A lot of people asked me, why was I smiling so much in the images. Well aren't we taught to do what we preach? Being a wedding photographer to a few of the weddings that I have shot, I have strived to capture such candid moments, that bring a smile to the viewer a long after the event is over. So it was but natural that I did the same.

As I step into this new phase of life, I am sure there are going to be a lot more obstacles and challenges. But I am glad to have Vatsala by my side in whatever I aim for and strive to achieve.

10 comments:

Jas B said...

Heartfelt best wishes and congratulations to you and Vatsala. A beautiful name. :)

Thank you for sharing your milestones and your happiness with us. :) God bless both you and your families.

Guns and cameras, hey. Will be interesting. :D

I believe that in the end its all upto the couple to see where to take their journey. It's their actions that decide whom to interact with, whom to respect and whom to expect respect from. Its a journey whose reins are in the individuals hands. One has to ensure that for the chariot on the journey of life to go and in a controlled manner, there is a proper resonance in the way the couple handles things.

Words of wisdom, Kshitiz, words of profound wisdom.

~mE said...

Congrats K..:)
Stay blessed both of you :)
i wonder why i dont get Your FB updates on my page.

Kshitiz Anand said...

Thanks for the wishes Jas :)

I look forward to the Guns and Cameras combination too !

Kshitiz Anand said...

Thanks Sharanya :)

Rhapsody said...

aww@ 'But I am glad to have Vatsala by my side in whatever I aim for and strive to achieve.'
touchwood :)

Rifle wali baat to nahi pata thi humko...tell her i am super impressed and looking forward to meet her :)

Lost Soul ( Nitin Pande ) said...

very well written .. acha laga padh ke :)

Kshitiz Anand said...

Thanks Swati :) Jaldi hi milwate hain :)

Thanks Nitin :)

Sunil Deepak said...

Congratulations and best wishes

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Finfinn said...

All the best - I am sure you made the right choice. You both look very happy. Relationship need working so you both need to do the job of bringing it alive everyday. Many blessing to you both